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But they feel okay about acting that way because they constantly feel they've been wronged, Burgo said.
Burgo says some narcissists are bullies — and one of their most troublesome traits is their tendency to be a sore loser a sore winner.Malkin says the logic goes like this: "If I find someone perfect to be close to, maybe some of their perfection will rub off on me, and I'll become perfect by association." With that ideal in mind, narcissists cozy up to people they find perfect — be it a colleague or a crush — and then get really disappointed when that person isn't as impeccable as they imagined.Because for a narcissist, everything has to be perfect." Writing in Psychology Today, Kaufman says narcissists typically enjoy leadership positions since they are able to dominate others and fulfill their need for constant positive reinforcement."A narcissist monk would not be good, but to be Kanye West and a narcissist is fantastic," said University of Western Sydney psychologist Peter Jonason, an expert on social psychology.
Psychologists talk about the "two faces of narcissism." On one end there's the hyper-aggressive, super-loud type. It's called "covert narcissism," which is denoted by introversion, hypersensitivity, defensiveness, and anxiety.